I was 25 years old when I saw the long-awaited two stripes on a pregnancy test. I was ready to scream, jump and cry from happiness. I wanted to hug a whole world and share my joy with everyone: I finally become a mom!
In 35 I looked at two cherished strips with delight and anxiety at the same time. I have long thought about the second child, but I scared the first pregnancy experience. Then, ten years ago, I came to the hospital for preservation three times, and in the penultimate time - also with a diagnosis of "intrauterine hypoxia of the fetus". I was very lucky that the doctors prevented the development of pathology, and the baby was born healthy. True, the neurologist still had some comments, and we stood on the year.
However, the second pregnancy has passed easily and very highly (sorry for the pun). I felt wonderful, was full of strength and energy. The birth was "like in oil", the youngest son was born healthy and strong, without any "but".
Now I understand what exactly affected the prosperous and calm course of my second pregnancy.
at 25: I was observed with the head of the department of women's consultation. From the very first meeting it seemed to me that she was not all the time to me: meetings, checks, administrative cases. Reception usually started 15-20 minutes later than the designated time and passed quickly, dry and formally. Then she had to run somewhere on others, obviously more important things.
at 35: Choosing a doctor, learned opinions on the forums, asked familiar young mothers. I was advised by a wonderful gynecologist with solid experience. Always calm, judgment, she was completely focused on me during the reception, answered in detail all my questions.
I gave birth to 32 long-awaited daughter at 32, and the second unexpected boy is in 35. I have a little situation a bit, since the difference is small between the children and the older in the garden deliberately do not give. It was very hard. And night sleepless and walking with two kids. And laziness Mother so covered me and my husband. They tired strongly, I even prested on alcohol, as GW stopped to disconnect the brain from endless whining. BUT!!! Somehow took herself in hand - look - you are a mother of two wonderful children !!! You did it !!! and all will be well. I love them insanely !!! And it would be different without a second - I can not imagine. Nobody regret. give birth. In 38 it will be more difficult)) By the way, all the pregnancy lies with the threat, and nothing - all these difficulties have already been forgotten, although the baby is still just a year old and so much in front))
Lada - love, I had a similar situation - my son was afraid to report, but said I said that he learned the first to create a confidential attitude of the conversation. I sat down near, hugged him and here we both spun in three streams.
Several tens of years ago, our grandmothers most often gave birth to children aged eighteen to twenty-two years. Time passed, and our moms have already been "moved" the age of childbearing from twenty to twenty five.
Today, statistics says that many women become moms for the first time only at a thirty-year-old age. And a lot of those who dream of a second child, however, for one reason or another, do not hurry to give birth repeatedly after the optimal period at three to five years after the first birth.
Someone wants, coming out from leave to care for a child, to make a career, someone "brings" a financial situation, and some couples simply fail to conceive the second kid.
And if the child's birth of a child after 35 years old was considered something like fiction to fiction, today there is increasingly re-pregnancy at such age is considered an option for the norm.
Doctors still call the optimal age for childbearing (20 - 25 years old), speaking that it is during this period a pregnancy takes place easier and in the overwhelming majority has a favorable outcome. But, at the same time, it is noted that each case is individual, and a lot depends, first of all, from the state of the health of women and proper preparation for successful conception and having to wear.
Hi, I am 35 there is a son for 6 years. . . I want to go crazy in the mind, but so much. . . Age, the weight is big, the fear that I will not call, etc. Who passed through it - share, support, advise. . .
Hi, I am 35 there is a son for 6 years. . . I want to go crazy in the mind, but so much. . . Age, weight is big, the fear that I can't hatch, etc. Who passed through it - share, support, ...
Modern pace of life changes the attitude of women to the family and the birth of children. Compared to previous decades, married couples first prefer to stand on their feet, get a stable income and purchase real estate, and then think about the birth of children. That is why childbirth is increasingly occurring after 30-35 years. How difficult to give birth to a healthy baby to a woman who over 35 years old?
What do doctors think about late birth? Opinions of specialists are ambiguous. Some still adhere to the opinions that the optimal age is 20-25 years old. This point of view is based on the fact that the young girl's body is rushing, she has less acquired diseases. Other gynecologists obstetricists adhere to pan-European standards and do not see anything bad in later childbirth after 30-35 years. On the contrary, they believe that during these years the woman is psychologically ready to become a mother.
Birth of a baby after 35 years - how dangerous is it? There is no unequivocal answer to this question, because late pregnancy has several advantages, including socio-psychological, but at the same time the risk of complications and pathologies increases significantly. What are the features of the birth of a child at a late age in terms of physiology and psychology?
Why is the birth of a healthy baby after a certain age can cause difficulties? From a biological point of view, the organism of a twenty-year-old girl is more adapted to having a child, it is better restored after childbirth. A young girl has not yet managed to acquire a number of chronic diseases of reproductive and other systems.
The older the woman becomes, the more diseases that are reflected in the reproductive capabilities of the body, it suffered for their lives. According to doctors, various gynecological oncological, infectious diseases are striking even young.
Viral infections, antibiotic treatment, toxins, adverse living conditions and transferred diseases are directly reflected in the genetic material that the future mother will transmit descendants. Late children increase the risk of chromosomal anomalies.
The musculoskeletal system is wearing over the years. Muscular tone is not like that of young, so the woman will be harder to enter the child, it threatens the omission of the small pelvis organs due to the dysfunction of the mudtop of the pelvic bottom. However, if the future mother is engaged in sports, her muscles will be in the best condition than in 20-25 years.
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